What the Church says about prayer
"Great is the mystery of the faith!" The Church professes this mystery in the Apostles' Creed and celebrates it in the sacramental liturgy, so that the life of the faithful may be conformed to Christ in the Holy Spirit to the glory of God the Faith. This mystery, then, requires that the faithful believe in it, that they celebrate it, and that they live from it in a vital and personal relationship with the living and true God. This relationship is prayer.” (CCC §2558).
"Prayer is speaking and listening to God and desiring to be united with God and to do his will". (Evangelium, CTS 2009)
Why do we pray to God?
We pray to God because he is God. It is therefore right to adore him, thank him, and repent before him. We also pray because he listens to our prayers and will act on our behalf when we pray. We pray to come to know God personally - and this is our greatest happiness.
Christian prayer involves one or more of the following actions before God:
Mistaken ideas about prayer.
Is prayer just in the mind? No. God acts when we pray and frequently causes miraculous changes in ourselves and in the world.
Does prayer seek a mental void? No. Prayer is not a mental exercise to empty the mind, as in Zen Buddhism or yoga. Prayer always has God and the things of God as a focus.
Is prayer just a technique? Prayer is never a ritual technique like magic, simply seeking power or other benefits. Christian prayer leads to the knowledge and love of God.
(Adapted from the Evangelium course by Fr Marcus Holden and Fr Andrew Pinsent (CTS 2009)).
How to Pray
Find a time when you can be still and quiet before the Lord - the best place for this is in a Catholic Church before the Blessed Sacrament. You can find this by looking for the dome or box, usually with a coloured curtain over it, called the tabernacle. This is where Christ, present in the Eucharist, is waiting for you. It is also marked by white or red lamps burning by it to represent the eternal presence within.
Ask God to help you to pray - try a simple prayer like this: "Come Holy Ghost, fill my heart and kindle within me the fire of your love". Make the sign of the cross over yourself and try to kneel if you are able.
Spend some time in God's presence, reflect on all that is good in the world, and give God thanks for that. Then spend some time asking for forgiveness for those things you have done wrong, and ask God to guide you closer to him.
At the end, ask Mary to help you with her prayers by saying "Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen."